A Generation Has Grown Up

watching their parents "hold the family together" at all costs. What did it teach the kids? For centuries, it taught the children the importance of commitment and vows, but then something changed. Rather than seeing a good example of responsibility, many saw their moms work and attempt to hold the family together while the dads were "doing their own thing" which often involved alcohol and little income. Sadly the members of the generation that watched that have become leeches on society and the women they seduce.
These guys are rather snake-like in that they frequently indirectly coil and slither around the truth. They seem to have to have a great deal of control or at least manage to skirt the consequences of their choices. They appear to believe they deserve authority, while the reality remains they are self serving young men that expect a woman in his life that will support herself and make him look good. Watching these men in their natural habitat, many things become clear. First and foremost they will contribute very little financially, except when it's something big that shows. For instance. These men earn little or share little and will expect their woman to put the food on the table and keep the rent paid, but these guys will buy $100 gifts, for everyone to see . . . These are also the same guys, when the woman finally leaves; will spend thousands on attorney fees to get out of paying child support. It's not an entire generation, but it is a sizable portion of young men that truly don't expect to provide for or support a woman, but will be very needy, yet controlling. This is happening, not only because they were shown this example, but many in their generation also believe in their own authority and self-centeredness. These are the folks that went to college, had the drive to want a big income, and they have to have enough income to live the "style" and pay back the the student loans for law school.
People in power that pander to this sort of anti-social behavior are only kowtowing to the bullies. In this age of tolerance and bullying laws, it seems the first thing we need to do is clean up a judicial system that panders to bullies and the bullies who represent them.
He that troubleth his own house shall inherit the wind: and the fool shall be servant to the wise of heart. a Proverb of Holy Scripture